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Recently a lot of friends ask me some questions about love .My best friend are one of them. When she chatted with me about it, her tone was filled with panic. I think it was the fear of the unknown .In the 21 years, she didn’t have any lover .It was 7 years ago, when we known each other first .she was a very sentimental girl at that time .And in these years, she witness our other friends’ sweet and pain in the love .And I am very glad to her didn’t go with others .Maybe because she couldn’t like these naïve boy or due to something else .But I am very glad she still have her own attitude to love.
That was how many yeas ago? At the age of 15, it wasn’t necessary to have a boyfriend .But four years later, I do be worry about her .And I know she see the not good feeling in other’s love .In those years ever, these promise like a feather let her don’t believe the love .so she was very frightened .After all, she will open a trip about her first love .More and more fears raise from her heart.
However, I would like to say the love is always a contradiction .Free in the adage of love and pain, they will feel a lot of happiness and pain ,and no one’s love is perfect In this world ,every girl will find the Mr. right after a long searching. It is very difficult to become a superman .So, don’t be afraid. You will grow after the failure again and again, and you will have different cognitive about love .After a long time you will learn how to love a man in a better way, and be loved by others.
No matter what you want, only listen to the voice from your heart .If your heart told you ,you want to love ,then do it bravely .Don’t be afraid of injured .I will always with you 。
最近好多朋友问我有关于爱情的问题，其中最好的朋友是初恋，在跟我聊起它时，语气里充满了恐慌，我想那是对未知的恐惧吧。21岁的她还没有谈过一次恋爱，七年前认识她时还是个非常青涩的小姑娘，在那些年少岁月里，她见证了我们其他几个好友在爱情里的辛酸苦辣。那些污浊的日子里，我很高兴她并没有随波逐流，不管是否是因为那些稚嫩的男生无法入她的眼，还是怎样，我都很庆幸，她依然对爱情保持着宁缺毋滥的态度。
那是几年前了？十五、六岁的年纪，也没必要非得去拥有一个不知所谓的男人。但是四年之后的她，却是着实让我担心起来了。这么些年里也确实让她看见了爱情里的许多不美好，那些轻似鸿毛的承诺，刻骨铭心的背叛！她看着身边的人爱了、伤了、也在时间的洪荒中各自天涯。在这些不美好里，她害怕起来，毕竟是初恋，第一次美好的回忆，她害怕受伤、害怕分离。甚至产生了畏惧。
但是，我想说，爱情这回事本来就是一个矛盾体。游离在爱与痛的边缘，痛并快乐着。没有哪个人的初恋美好的不像样子，也不会有人谈一次恋爱就定下终身！在这个世界上的哪个女孩子不是在爱情里摸爬滚打许多年才找寻到那个他。也没有哪个人在一帆风顺中就练就成钢铁女汉子的！所以，别怕。你会在一次次失败里慢慢成长。不断地对爱情产生不同的认知。在一次次的摸索里，你会学会怎么去更好的爱一个人、以及被人爱，还有更好的爱自己。
不管怎么想，都要听从内心的指引，如果你的心告诉你，你想爱，那就勇敢去爱吧！受伤了，别怕，还有我。
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发表于 2014-2-11 12:04:18
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发表于 2014-2-11 13:33:11
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